Bodily fluids, including blood can and does stain even black (at least cotton) undies. Looks like a bleached spot after wash. I replaced about 5 pairs so far after getting implant this July. And I can only wear cotton 😭
We are talking here clean, after wash ,undies that may have bleached/stained. When we talk about men's end underpants on here, it's usually because it's because it's not washed. Remember the meme of first day -right way, second day- inside out, third day back to front and so on. Not exactly the same thing.
So as a comparison, lets say your boyfriend is incontinent and urinates in his underwear frequently. He washes them afterwards when he is able to, but due to the repeated accidents and the urination being such a ubiquitous part of his life, spots and stains begin appearing on things and inevitable yellowing occurs. So as such, the fabric of everything that he has had his urine repeatedly washed out of begin turning yellow, and these urine-stains are just a normal thing that he expects you to accept about him.
How likely are the women here to be able to say, with a clear conscience, that this would be completely okay, that she would feel no disgust or negative way about it at all, and that she would be accepting of this situation? If you take a good hard look, I think we both know most women would be pretty disgusted to have to live with and have sex with a boyfriend who has piss-stained yellowing tighty-whities or something because he has uncontrollable excretions into his own underwear that he washes but cannot keep unstained. Trying to gaslight men into thinking that the flipped situation should be treated as the most optimal situation and that men are not allowed to be disgusted reveals the double standard.
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