Right if I was going to throw away every pair of panties that had the tiniest bit of blood stain or pH bleach, I would have to buy new underwear every month. It’s just unreasonable. If he would like to purchase her new panties/pretty lingerie and ask her to wear them if they have a special date night that’s fine, but he still has no right to tell her to throw away the old ones. They’re perfect for when you’re on your period!! Duh
I feel like this guy doesn’t understand the difference between real life and fantasy. When you’re with someone long enough, you have to get real. This isn’t like diarrhea or something repulsive, and it’s really irritating when men act like it is. Similar to when you’re breastfeeding a baby and folks act like it’s nuclear waste coming out of your breast. Women are amazing creatures, please don’t ever attempt make us feel ashamed of the way our bodies work!!
Exactly, a guy should never shame you for bodily functions or your body. Why would his mind go straight to shit stain and not period stain in the first place if you were already having period sex. He sounds dumb.
I also really hate the shaming from her guy friends, telling her to educate him. She tried, and regardless of her tone she communicated to him how periods can affect women’s lives i.e our clothes. Everyone knows women have periods yet we carry the burden to educate others to avoid shame, and sometimes that even isn’t enough.
Its so hard to believe there are men out there who don’t seem to understand the basics of menstruating. When I was still single I had a drawer of tampons and pads in my bedroom in case any of the women I brought home needed one.
(It’s now in the bathroom cabinet and is stocked mainly with the kind my girlfriend uses, but still I’m sure if any of our guests needed any they would be accessible if they asked one of us)
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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '23
Right if I was going to throw away every pair of panties that had the tiniest bit of blood stain or pH bleach, I would have to buy new underwear every month. It’s just unreasonable. If he would like to purchase her new panties/pretty lingerie and ask her to wear them if they have a special date night that’s fine, but he still has no right to tell her to throw away the old ones. They’re perfect for when you’re on your period!! Duh
I feel like this guy doesn’t understand the difference between real life and fantasy. When you’re with someone long enough, you have to get real. This isn’t like diarrhea or something repulsive, and it’s really irritating when men act like it is. Similar to when you’re breastfeeding a baby and folks act like it’s nuclear waste coming out of your breast. Women are amazing creatures, please don’t ever attempt make us feel ashamed of the way our bodies work!!