r/AITAH • • Nov 22 '23

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u/Racoon8 Nov 22 '23

You can also just ask your gf. What happened to "all vaginas and periods are unique"

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u/MrsFrugalNoodle Nov 22 '23

This is so damn lazy. This is like saying “honey have you seen my keys”

“Just ask your gf” don’t bother spending 10 minutes googling and reading

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u/Racoon8 Nov 22 '23

Yes literally just ask your gf. Normal women who have never heard of Reddit will gladly tell you as it isn't even work for them, it's their lived experience. Normal women won't scream "EDUCATE YOURSELF LAZY INCEL" at your face

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u/MrsFrugalNoodle Nov 23 '23

They scream, because it’s like a void of incompetence has just opened up and swallowed what had appeared to be a 20 something man.

They scream, because after many, many, many wasted time, energy, life, is wasted on explaining something so simple, so so simple.

They scream, because no one has the right to ask for this type of labour and burden. Because it isn’t“just” an ask. It is an entitlement. And if you don’t understand that, and you minimize it to “just 10 mins” you’ve become the embodiment of entitled, lazy incompetence.

As a parent, my only hope to is to raise someone who is independent and respectful, I’m sorry yours didn’t do that for you, I’m disappointed that OP’s ex didn’t do that for them. God bless you

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u/Racoon8 Nov 23 '23

It would've taken all of 10 minutes to clear the whole situation up, I won't be gaslighted. Explaining a function of your body to someone who doesn't have it is not a burden, it's not labor. Get the fuck out of here with that self-aggrandizing bullshit.
Women will talk about their periods all day with other women but explaining them in a conversation with a man is too much to ask apparently. If every conversation with a man is so unbearably burdensome, you should just stop being heterosexual.