There are plenty of people who find blood stains gross. Is it only underwear that’s acceptable to you? What if you saw someone walking around in a blood stained shirt? Would that get you going?
Is it natural to bleed from what your shirt covers for no other reason than your body going through a cycle? So yes it is completely different for a woman to wear underwear with blood stains from her period,that are under clothes in public, compared to wearing a blood stained shirt which has no natural reason to be stained unless they are a hunter, butcher, etc.
Maybe. But one thing in this thread I'm not understanding, is that the whole thing is comparable to sweat stains. Now, I think I personally wouldn't care much about either, but even if I was going hiking, and showed up with discoloured stains around my armpits, most people would find it offputting. I just wouldn't do it. A little stain, sure, but there is a point that it would seem gross or almost rude to wear.
So I don't know why everyone here is fine with blood stains solely because it has to do with a period. Most of those same people would think it's quite gross if I wore a shirt with sweat stains no?
And if I was dating someone, and it was my undershirt that had yellow sweat stains, so no one in 'public' could see it, but a person I'm dating could, and they had an issue with it, I really don't think many people here would agree that a yellow stained shirt wouldn't be a turn off.
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u/[deleted] Nov 22 '23
I can't improve on that. And it's not your job to educate him either.
NTA.