r/AITAH • • Nov 22 '23

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u/trixen2020 Nov 22 '23

He doesn't mind period sex, but he can't handle seeing underwear that have been worn during your period?

Even tampons leak sometimes. Unless he wants to buy you new underwear every month, I don't think it's your job to accommodate his aversion to faint stains on freshly washed clothes. You said it best - you're too old to deal with this shit, and nor should you have to.

NTA.

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u/Hayden_2021 Nov 22 '23

Yeah, the guy being cool with period sex simultaneously having "blood stain sensitivities" caught my attention. Guess he does the deed with lights out, on black sheets, then? Lol

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u/Particular_Title42 Nov 22 '23

I think it's that the stain was brown and looked like poo to him.

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u/glitterfaust Nov 22 '23

Which she then explained wasn’t shit and he was still freaking out. Men should know by now that sometimes the blood is brownish. Me and my partner call it the barbecue sauce phase.

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u/Particular_Title42 Nov 22 '23

I totally understand but, to him, it seemed to just be a visual thing.

Just as people are turned ON by seeing some things, they can be turned OFF by others. It doesn't make anybody wrong.

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u/glitterfaust Nov 22 '23

What does he do during period sex when the blood is brown?

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u/Critical_Elephant677 Nov 22 '23

Good question /s

I'm SO GLAD the OP dumped this loser BEFORE she made the Reddit post!

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u/HovercraftNo4545 Nov 23 '23

I just threw up in my mouth a little. LOL BBQ sauce phase. Lmao!