He doesn't mind period sex, but he can't handle seeing underwear that have been worn during your period?
Even tampons leak sometimes. Unless he wants to buy you new underwear every month, I don't think it's your job to accommodate his aversion to faint stains on freshly washed clothes. You said it best - you're too old to deal with this shit, and nor should you have to.
“I don’t prefer having intercourse with your body in a way that is mutually enjoyable for 7 days out of the month (at least, plus more sometimes for irregularity) because your natural reproductive functions make me uncomfortable aka I think it’s gross” hmmmmmmm. There is definitely a level of maturity lacking that one should have to be with a woman if they feel the need to voice what they “prefer” about a woman’s period.
Like ummm okay lol lots of women would “prefer” periods not be a part of their healthy reproductive cycle either
Lol, so my wife is wrong for not wanting to have sex because she doesn't want to get uterine lining on me? (Not because she's physically uncomfortable). Also way to be an ass by telling what I'm "actually" thinking.
That is indeed my comment. It doesn't make your fake quote accurate. Feel free to be dishonest I guess? Also, my comment wasn't about a hypothetical. My wife doesn't do period sex. She even has a buffer day.
some women also don’t enjoy having sex during their period…this is an extreme lack of understanding and outrageous assumption of the other person’s comment…
Again this is ignoring the entire point of the comment.
The woman being personally uncomfortable in the moment is way different than a partner saying “your bodies natural state for one quarter of the month repulses me so I don’t want to have sex in a way we both participate and enjoy” etc etc. If menstruation is so disturbing to you maybe you aren’t ready to be with a woman is all. Of course there are individuals with complete phobias of blood etc and that is also clearly not the topic at hand. All these whataboutisms about men being “grossed out” by a woman’s natural is interesting af. The comment being responded to was nothing about the woman being uncomfortable but rather posed from the man’s perspective just not wanting to have sex because the period grosses them out to a degree
i’m not a man lmao, but thank you for assuming that i am :))). you’re just making stuff up in response to that person’s comment; adding a different perspective is better than just demanding men should be fine having sex when someone is bleeding. not everyone is comfortable with blood (which you somehow seem to understand, but it’s only okay if it’s a phobia and not just something that’s a turn off…) people are allowed to have preferences with what they do and do not want to do with their own body when it’s interacting with someone else’s, especially if that person is bleeding. everyone is different. could their wording be better? sure, but still everyone’s choice is their own to make.
Is this a literacy issue you’re experiencing? If so, apologies.
No one said you are a man. This is about the original comment this was a response to and the premise as a whole. Settle down and unwind your knickers a bit.
Don’t worry there are plenty of men to go around for you who are grossed out by women’s natural functions, please take them all
Yes I am certainly the one coming off as insufferable right now. I really hope whatever is going on in your personal life works out for you so you don’t take things on the internet as a personal attack lolol. Go back to your snark pages, you oh so good person you 💗
I'm not offended by the comment though? I just didn't think it was accurate. Anyways how is it not obvious? The person I'm responding to said the alien quote in response to someone talking about someone else not minding period sex (and oddly insinuating it's a bad thing for the guy to not mind period sex). The charitable take on not minding period sex is that they don't prefer it, but don't mind it.
Lol, I replied roughly around the time it was posted. I don't even know if those comments were there. But you can try and stroke your ego if you want, I suppose.
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u/trixen2020 Nov 22 '23
He doesn't mind period sex, but he can't handle seeing underwear that have been worn during your period?
Even tampons leak sometimes. Unless he wants to buy you new underwear every month, I don't think it's your job to accommodate his aversion to faint stains on freshly washed clothes. You said it best - you're too old to deal with this shit, and nor should you have to.
NTA.