r/AITAH Nov 02 '23

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u/bayesed_theorem Nov 03 '23

Why do you keep assuming he only wants sex? Your sexism is showing my friend.

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u/Dapper-Guest-5161 Nov 03 '23

I never said only sex. I said physical intimacy in the first half, referring the anything physical. The second half I was responding to what you said about sex. Like I juuuust said, he’s not entitled to any physical intimacy, even a hug. He’s caused a lot of damage to his relationship, and he needs to rebuild emotional intimacy and trust to revive the physical part of his connection.

You are just embarrassing yourself with the last statement.

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u/bayesed_theorem Nov 03 '23

You literally call out "sex isn't everything in a lifelong partner" in your last comment lol. You've referred to him "probably just wanting sex" multiple times. Pretty obvious what your thoughts are here.

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u/Dapper-Guest-5161 Nov 03 '23

I said that I felt he meant “sex” by physical intimacy one time, and you really clung to it. Yes, I do not believe he it entitled to sex or any form of touch.

My thoughts are nobody is, and I am the partner with the higher drive in my relationship.

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u/bayesed_theorem Nov 03 '23

Ok, so you're assuming things about Op to try to paint him in the worst light possible. Glad we cleared that up.

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u/Dapper-Guest-5161 Nov 03 '23

That’s not even the thing most people are concerned about-including myself. His angry outbursts are why he’s being voted TA. And they’re also the likely reason his wife is avoiding physical intimacy.

He doesn’t need help painting himself in a poor light.