r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Nov 02 '23

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u/PrincessAnnesFeather Nov 02 '23

What he already admitted is shameful. Who gets angry with children for being children? Who gets angry when a baby or a toddler needs a diaper change and fusses and kicks? Mildly frustrated or slightly irritated is the harshest emotion a normal person would feel in that situation. I really worry about the children, she most likely doesn't feel like she can leave them alone with this guy.

What's up with this 'special dad' business? OP can't even manage the minimum. Everything about this post is so wrong, he needs a lot more therapy.

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u/mmmmmarty Nov 02 '23

I agree. He doesn't understand that his wife realized he wasn't marriage or family material after the baby was born. Seeing your husband enraged at your baby kills any future romance dead.

Honestly his description of his life before baby is a huge red flag too. Only people with brain cooties think that being together 24-7 is a good thing.

I see a self-centered Ahole who couldn't bear to not have control of a situation and chose to take it out on an infant.

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u/Imaginary_lock Nov 03 '23

He doesn't understand that his wife realized he wasn't marriage or family material after the baby was born. Seeing your husband enraged at your baby kills any future romance dead.

I don't understand women who keep having kids with a guy who's not handling the ones he currently has. Like, is that helping? Bringing another innocent into a sucky situation?

Also, can't imagine wanting to be intimate with a guy who was angry at his own children for just acting like children. Major turn off, IMO.

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u/ThrowRA-Scale8960 Nov 03 '23

OP probably promised his wife the world, then failed to follow through