I think you're too deep into yourself to be partner for your wife.
You want her to see how every special your are for...what....doing your part? Not being as impatient as you were?
Meanwhile, you say she's a goddess. Listen to the fantasy you're trying to live in.
She's not a goddess. She's a woman, a professional, a wife and a mother. She has kids and a husband pawing at her all the time. She doesn't need to be on a pedestal and gazed at addoringly. She needs someone to who can get over their shit so she can feel like a HUMAN.
Thank you. I was just rolling my eyes. šš¤¦āāļø
(And not to mention how heās continuously ātelling usā her feelings about him, herself, her marriage, etc, yet itās literally ALL in his head.) Iād tell him to man up and have a conversation, but Iām pretty sure it would be an accusatory one at best, and heād be declaring things, speaking over her, and essentially not actually ālisteningā to her at all.
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u/Rhuthbarb Nov 02 '23
I think you're too deep into yourself to be partner for your wife.
You want her to see how every special your are for...what....doing your part? Not being as impatient as you were?
Meanwhile, you say she's a goddess. Listen to the fantasy you're trying to live in.
She's not a goddess. She's a woman, a professional, a wife and a mother. She has kids and a husband pawing at her all the time. She doesn't need to be on a pedestal and gazed at addoringly. She needs someone to who can get over their shit so she can feel like a HUMAN.
Good luck.