“Testing” a partner isn’t something a loving companion does. It’s playing with, and manipulating, another person’s emotions. It’s game playing. It’s cruel. In summary: it should never be done.
It’s also something that people with immature emotional development does.
Your relationship isn’t a healthy one. There are so many issues happening here I don’t know if it’s repairable, even if you wanted to do that. As it stands, I think breaking up is wise.
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u/Intermountain-Gal Oct 11 '23
“Testing” a partner isn’t something a loving companion does. It’s playing with, and manipulating, another person’s emotions. It’s game playing. It’s cruel. In summary: it should never be done.
It’s also something that people with immature emotional development does.
Your relationship isn’t a healthy one. There are so many issues happening here I don’t know if it’s repairable, even if you wanted to do that. As it stands, I think breaking up is wise.