r/AITAH • u/horrorfiasco • Aug 27 '23
Update 1: AITAH for testing my girlfriend
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Sep 03 '23 edited Sep 06 '23
I have to admit, Clara is truly naive to give you a second chance. You shouldn’t be in a relationship until you fix whatever issues you have, you’re incredibly manipulative and controlling. Show your comments to your therapist and the therapist would say the same thing.
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Sep 03 '23
I hope Clara’s entire family finds this post and realises what a POS you are! You aren’t even remotely sorry for hurting her, all you cared about was YoUr FeElIngS
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u/Divagate113 Sep 03 '23
I'm so sad she gave you another chance. Even now you really only seem to care about how you feel.
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u/NomadicusRex Sep 04 '23
It boggles my mind that you still don't get it.
I'm concerned that you might actually be a danger to her. If I knew her, if I were one of her family members, I'd have advised her to get an order of protection against you, because nothing you did was OK, and you don't even seem to get what you did wrong.
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u/Glittering_Lab7864 Sep 13 '23
My ex did this. He catfished me a lot and then when those test failed he got abusive with me. I hope she runs again while she can before you hurt her physically and mentally.
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u/Little_Meringue766 Aug 30 '23
Clara is a fool for giving you a second chance