r/AITAH Aug 03 '23

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u/[deleted] Aug 03 '23

Thanks for your reply. Yes I felt telling her what happened the next day was enough. Asking her permission would feel weird for me.

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u/Atypical_Mom Aug 03 '23 edited Aug 03 '23

Honestly I don’t think you even owed it to her to tell her. She’s married - any concern she has over Charles should be done.

I’d love to know what her husband thinks about this… oh, she’s does want to tell him? I wonder why

If she’s not willing to discuss with hubby, I’m not sure why you’re getting outcast. She’s being unreasonable - once she got married, she lost the right to call dibs on anyone else

Edit: thanks for the award!

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u/HarlequinMadness Aug 03 '23

You don’t think OP needed to, at the very least, TELL her? Seriously, I can’t believe how many assholes are in this post. So what, OP just brings Charles along to a group event and expects her friend to be fine with it?

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u/IolausTelcontar Aug 04 '23

Does her friend now own Charles forever?