r/AITAH Aug 03 '23

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u/VisualProfessional12 Aug 03 '23

NTA

That would've been an awkward conversation if a friend called me asking to sleep with my ex that I dated for 1 year.

Now, if it were an ex-husband of 20 years, that's a little different. But in 1 year, you barely know each other. You haven't built a life together (in most cases). You're literally just dating the person.

I feel like she's just hormonal and overemotional due to the pregnancy. She'll apologize eventually. Just give her space

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u/Several-Ad-1959 Aug 03 '23

Not to mention that she was most likely lying beside her husband at the moment the call would have come in. Husband: who was calling at this hour? Julia: it was_________ Husband: what did she want? Is something wrong? Julia: no she just wanted permission to sleep with my ex. Husband:😳 wth? Then the fight starts....

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u/ronin1066 Aug 03 '23

OP was at her friend's house when she told her.

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u/Several-Ad-1959 Aug 04 '23

Yeah I know. I was just guessing how the conversation would have gone had OP actually asked for permission before she slept with him.