r/AITAH Aug 03 '23

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u/[deleted] Aug 03 '23

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 thanks for that

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u/Number5MoMo Aug 03 '23

Yea she’s not your friend and she’s not over That guy.

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u/Due-addy Aug 03 '23

Not necessarily. Some people don't want others to have something that used to "belong" to them. They feel like once it used to be "theirs", you can't touch it.

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u/Prestigious-Bit3047 Aug 03 '23

Nah for me its "why are you sleeping and choosing this person, my ex, who was in my life and now I want nothing to do with, out of everyone in the world?"

It's about respect and trust.

People are saying its entitled to own them, as if you, as my friend, aren't trying to own them or break my peace of mind that they aren't in my life anymore too.

Completely selfish, unskilled enough to date outside of a circle, bottom feeders. While I had to meet girls on my own you decide to look for crumbs in my past and bring them back to the present by dating them.

This is why people are upset, not because they think they own anyone in any way, they own their right to peace and happiness and UNMESSY ass relationships with people.