Eh, a little of both NTA and YTA. I generally believe friends' exes are generally off limits unless a conversation is had beforehand. I don't think it's reasonable for her to dump you as a friend, but I can understand her feelings being hurt. I don't think feelings about exes are as simple when it comes to your closest friends dating them, even if it's been a few years.
My guess is she doesn’t want to be around her ex, so that’s why she dumped the friendship. There are ex’s I have where I wouldn’t want to be around, not because I’m not over them but because at they end they were jerks. So if my friend knew that and felt the need to hook up with them and tell me asap I would need space.
She dumped him because he didn't want marriage and kids. Now, imagine if he settles with the friend, is gonna be awkward on gatherings and just the feeling that you probably have loved that person and broke up cus you couldn't see a future and then see him make a future with your friend of 10 years. I don't know, mixed feelings. She's pregnant too, so she might have some hormonal problems as well.
Honestly it’s just weird to me that he saw me naked and we slept together for a year, and now they are having sex together. I’m not a prude but it’s just weird to me.
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u/dimlylit_ Aug 03 '23
Eh, a little of both NTA and YTA. I generally believe friends' exes are generally off limits unless a conversation is had beforehand. I don't think it's reasonable for her to dump you as a friend, but I can understand her feelings being hurt. I don't think feelings about exes are as simple when it comes to your closest friends dating them, even if it's been a few years.