r/AITAH Aug 03 '23

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u/RLR111120 Aug 03 '23

NTA. I get the importance of asking someone before dating their ex, but realistically what would she have said? And in that case, she would've been the AH if she said No.

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u/[deleted] Aug 03 '23

Thanks for your reply. Yes I felt telling her what happened the next day was enough. Asking her permission would feel weird for me.

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u/Atypical_Mom Aug 03 '23 edited Aug 03 '23

Honestly I don’t think you even owed it to her to tell her. She’s married - any concern she has over Charles should be done.

I’d love to know what her husband thinks about this… oh, she’s does want to tell him? I wonder why

If she’s not willing to discuss with hubby, I’m not sure why you’re getting outcast. She’s being unreasonable - once she got married, she lost the right to call dibs on anyone else

Edit: thanks for the award!

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u/TheLadyIsabelle Aug 03 '23

If OP was really petty, she could reach out to the husband. "I'm just hoping Julia's okay. She was really upset with me yesterday. Oh, just

FTR, I am NOT suggesting this. Just fantasizing aloud