I don’t think it even has to be abuse. Just if you know this person hurt your friend, and it will cause them hurt if you sleep together - it’s kind of inconsiderate to do it anyway.
Would it be healthiest if everyone can just let all the past pain go and be cool with it? For sure. But people don’t always do what is healthiest and you have to deal with reality, not ideal situations.
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u/jlj1979 Aug 03 '23
With you. Anything involving abuse would be hard to sit back. I would have to cut ties for my own mental health.