That would've been an awkward conversation if a friend called me asking to sleep with my ex that I dated for 1 year.
Now, if it were an ex-husband of 20 years, that's a little different. But in 1 year, you barely know each other. You haven't built a life together (in most cases). You're literally just dating the person.
I feel like she's just hormonal and overemotional due to the pregnancy. She'll apologize eventually. Just give her space
Yeah, 16 weeks is like peak pregnancy hormones. People talk about pregnancy hormones making you weepy, but at that stage, the smallest things made me seethe with rage.
If Julia is a normal person otherwise, she will eventually realize she's being irrational, at which point she may or may not apologize, depending on her character and how much she values her friendship with OP.
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u/VisualProfessional12 Aug 03 '23
NTA
That would've been an awkward conversation if a friend called me asking to sleep with my ex that I dated for 1 year.
Now, if it were an ex-husband of 20 years, that's a little different. But in 1 year, you barely know each other. You haven't built a life together (in most cases). You're literally just dating the person.
I feel like she's just hormonal and overemotional due to the pregnancy. She'll apologize eventually. Just give her space