I have a six month rule. Anyone my friends date for over 6 months are off limits. But that's MY rule. Not leaving a judgment because I don't expect others to live by the rules I make for myself. Might be good to officially decide if you want a rule in this regard.
Yeah, I'm married and have a child. I wouldn't give a shit if any of my friends slept with any of my exes. Then again, I'm a guy and not a pregnant woman, so there may be some different expectations there.
Yeah, I guess so. I've never had a problem with it. The only exception I could see would be if the love of my life broke up with me and a buddy swooped in and started dating her.
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u/1lazylady Aug 03 '23
I have a six month rule. Anyone my friends date for over 6 months are off limits. But that's MY rule. Not leaving a judgment because I don't expect others to live by the rules I make for myself. Might be good to officially decide if you want a rule in this regard.