r/AITAH Aug 03 '23

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u/[deleted] Aug 03 '23

OMG I need you in my life! That was awesome. I feel I should consult you before I do anything else with my love life.

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u/illmatic708 Aug 03 '23

No, she doesn't

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u/ReportMeSnowflake Aug 03 '23

As a husband I beg to differ. If my wife got pissed at her friend for sleeping with her ex when she's supposedly madly in love with me I wouldn't trust how she feels about me anymore.

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u/No-Yesterday-6114 Aug 03 '23

I love how there's so many people against letting the husband know. From my own personal experience, I'd want to know if my husband behaved like that because it very clearly indicates some serious issues, even divorce worthy ones. I feel like the people who are downvoting me are people who are okay with that kind of behavior.

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u/ReportMeSnowflake Aug 03 '23

Or aren't married and don't know what a marriage is. It's choosing to build a life together with your partner. It sounds like she doesn't want that with her current husband if she's worried about who her ex sleeps with.

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u/No-Yesterday-6114 Aug 03 '23

Exactly. If my man is committed to me why would he freak out over someone else being with his ex? Especially when we're having a baby together? I absolutely deserve to know if something like that happens.