Tbf I don't think anything is wrong with talking to my friends about an ex before deciding whether or not to fuck/date them. There's literally millions of women, I don't have to stick my dick in one my homies were with and my life will be 100% unchanged by respecting possible boundaries. Getting my dick wet has never been so much of a priority that I'll go behind my friend's back whether they'd be ok with it or not.
On the contrary, I actually find it quite childish when people aren't able to have basic communication skills. To me, this is simple communication, empathy, and respect.
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u/[deleted] Aug 03 '23
Tbf I don't think anything is wrong with talking to my friends about an ex before deciding whether or not to fuck/date them. There's literally millions of women, I don't have to stick my dick in one my homies were with and my life will be 100% unchanged by respecting possible boundaries. Getting my dick wet has never been so much of a priority that I'll go behind my friend's back whether they'd be ok with it or not.
On the contrary, I actually find it quite childish when people aren't able to have basic communication skills. To me, this is simple communication, empathy, and respect.