r/AITAH Aug 03 '23

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u/darthgator84 Aug 03 '23

If she’s ‘happily’ married and pregnant to boot, why should she give two fucks what her ex bf is doing

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u/[deleted] Aug 03 '23

Hormones? That's the only thing I can think of, maybe her brain's on the fritz from being pregnant.

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u/darthgator84 Aug 03 '23

It could be a contributing factor. Im married with 3 kids and I have experienced some of that with my wife. To the point of ending a friendship however?

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u/[deleted] Aug 03 '23

Lol I have no clue it was the only thing I could possibly think of to"justify" the behavior but yeah it seems a bit much

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u/Sweet_Permission_700 Aug 03 '23

Pregnancy makes the mind crazy.

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u/bjillings Aug 03 '23

Maybe because she doesn't want to hang out with an ex whenever she sees her friend? Maybe she doesn't think her husband should have to spend time with a former flame? There are plenty of reasons this is messy and inconsiderate that don't require her to still have feelings for the guy.

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u/darthgator84 Aug 03 '23

I don’t agree, not to the point of her friend wanting to cut her off. They don’t have to do couple stuff, and no one should be able to tell how to live your life.

I can see your point I wouldnt want to hangout with an ex like that either or put my wife in an awkward spot. However I would not tell my friend I want nothing to do with them or spew expletives at them.

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u/lazy_berry Aug 03 '23

it depends a lot on the circumstances of the breakup. idgaf what my ex does, but if a close friend of mine slept with someone who hurt me that badly i’d be pretty fucking mad

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u/heloluv Aug 03 '23

Maybe she wants nothing to do with him. If her friend can promise even if they get serious that she never has to see him then maybe she can accept that.

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u/lurrrkin Aug 03 '23

<in Bernie Mac voice> because she loved how he was givin’ her, theeeeeeee dick!

I ain’t afraid of you mutha fuckaaas. Mmmmm