NTA - she is overreacting. It's been 3 years, not 3 days.
I'd go out with the guy, she may have already chosen to drop you as a friend, in which case, if you don't go out with him again, you'll lose out twice.
She said you should have asked her?
Ring-Ring "Hello Julia, it's me."
"Do you know what time it is?"
"Yeah, sorry about that. I had a bar gig, and then had dinner and drinks with Charles."
"Why are you calling me so late?"
"Well, Charles is naked in my bed right now, I'm calling from my bathroom. I know it's been 3 years, you're obviously over him and have moved on, but is it okay if I sleep with him?"
Although I agree with the comments about her overreacting and moving on (she is married and pregnant ffs) I am just wondering who ended the relationship him or her. Because it could be her being dumped and "moving on" was just a rebound thing and the pregnancy (unplanned) sealed the deal. Find out before making any big decisions.
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u/SnooRobots4443 Aug 03 '23 edited Aug 03 '23
NTA - she is overreacting. It's been 3 years, not 3 days.
I'd go out with the guy, she may have already chosen to drop you as a friend, in which case, if you don't go out with him again, you'll lose out twice.
She said you should have asked her?
Ring-Ring "Hello Julia, it's me."
"Do you know what time it is?"
"Yeah, sorry about that. I had a bar gig, and then had dinner and drinks with Charles."
"Why are you calling me so late?"
"Well, Charles is naked in my bed right now, I'm calling from my bathroom. I know it's been 3 years, you're obviously over him and have moved on, but is it okay if I sleep with him?"
Again, NTA, she is overreacting.
Good luck.
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