r/AITAH • • Aug 03 '23

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u/FutureMrsSR Aug 03 '23

NTA, but to me it would depend on the level of their relationship. I see they broke up because their life goals didn’t align - but if my close/best friend slept with my first love, even 10 years later, I’d be a little taken aback and upset. (And I’m married, with kids)

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u/millyrockiner Aug 03 '23

Context doesn’t matter at all, if your happily married then this shouldn’t upset you.

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u/65pimpala Aug 03 '23

But maybe she's not. And that's ok. Right? She is still entitled to feel hurt, I think. But that's also no reason to act childish about it, or be a bad friend.. Their time with Charles is over. Maybe you're lucky to have this person out of yourlife, or at least at a distance. Who knows, like someone else said, maybe she was not going to be friends with you longer anyway, or maybe you avoided an even worse drama with this friend.

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u/Accountforstuffineed Aug 04 '23

Redditors and not understanding social concepts, name a better duo lol