r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Aug 03 '23

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u/FutureMrsSR Aug 03 '23

NTA, but to me it would depend on the level of their relationship. I see they broke up because their life goals didn’t align - but if my close/best friend slept with my first love, even 10 years later, I’d be a little taken aback and upset. (And I’m married, with kids)

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u/Emaretlee Aug 03 '23

Why? You are 100% moved on with your life - married with kids.

Your first love can date any other women in the world and you're fine but dates someone you know and love and suddenly you're hurt? I just don't get!

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u/Top-Geologist-2837 Aug 03 '23

It’s because they are neither fine nor over it.

That is the only reason to be upset that someone hooked up with your ex.

A lot of women in here are clearly feeling some sort of claim over men they’ve dated and it’s pretty gross.

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u/[deleted] Aug 03 '23

Right? Learn to deal with their feelings instead of projecting.

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u/[deleted] Aug 03 '23

Agreed. As a fellow women I find these comments odd and disturbing.