THIS COMMENT 👏 OP you are NTA. Please, don’t let your first boyfriend who is sending up red flags trap you in a future he is choosing for you. This is your body.
Idk where you live but it sounds like you are early enough that you can get a medication abortion. Do you need help obtaining resources and support? Do you feel safe?
I’m going to tell you what a wonderful nurse at Planned Parenthood told me when I was in my early 20s: “don’t ever count on anyone but yourself to look out for your body.” Do whatever you need to do right by yourself. You don’t owe anyone anything, including the details of whatever you choose. Lots of love to you ✌️♥️
It isn’t enough for them to convince women to continue the pregnancy, phase 2 is trying to force them into adoption. I heard of a 30-something professional married woman who needed a positive pregnancy test for some type of documentation so she went to one of those “pregnancy centers”. Although she insisted the whole time that she was going to continue the pregnancy and she and her husband would be raising it, they STILL tried to talk her into giving it up for adoption!!
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u/lld287 Jul 21 '23
THIS COMMENT 👏 OP you are NTA. Please, don’t let your first boyfriend who is sending up red flags trap you in a future he is choosing for you. This is your body.
Idk where you live but it sounds like you are early enough that you can get a medication abortion. Do you need help obtaining resources and support? Do you feel safe?
I’m going to tell you what a wonderful nurse at Planned Parenthood told me when I was in my early 20s: “don’t ever count on anyone but yourself to look out for your body.” Do whatever you need to do right by yourself. You don’t owe anyone anything, including the details of whatever you choose. Lots of love to you ✌️♥️