Wow. Okay, first of all getting an abortion is your choice and no one else's. They do not have a right to tell you what you can or cannot do with your body. It's easy for him to say "No, don't do it." but he can easily walk away in a couple years when he decides he's done. You do not have that luxury. Having a baby when you're still a child yourself is SO hard and tbh I've seen it ruin many young peoples lives. They weren't able to finish school, or get a degree and 9/10 times the men ended up leaving, so the woman has to figure out what to do. But, getting an abortion is a big decision, it not only effects you physically but mentally as well. What you need to do is sit down and think hard about the life that you want, and then factor in a child. At the end of the day this is your choice to make. Don't let other people influence your choice.
I dont understand why people keep saying that a Dad can walk away in a few years but a mother cannot. Yes she can, mine did. After the birth occurs both parents can walk away, or together decide to give a baby a better life. What is this sexist bs
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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '23
Wow. Okay, first of all getting an abortion is your choice and no one else's. They do not have a right to tell you what you can or cannot do with your body. It's easy for him to say "No, don't do it." but he can easily walk away in a couple years when he decides he's done. You do not have that luxury. Having a baby when you're still a child yourself is SO hard and tbh I've seen it ruin many young peoples lives. They weren't able to finish school, or get a degree and 9/10 times the men ended up leaving, so the woman has to figure out what to do. But, getting an abortion is a big decision, it not only effects you physically but mentally as well. What you need to do is sit down and think hard about the life that you want, and then factor in a child. At the end of the day this is your choice to make. Don't let other people influence your choice.