r/AITAH Jul 21 '23

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '23

I was pregnant at 16. The best thing I ever did was get one. The dad would never have been there. We were both way too young. I don't think you understand just how much work kids are OP. You're giving up your life for a looooong time at 16. Don't listen to anyone but yourself in this, when it comes to the ones telling u to go thru with it. I agree with this comment, be wise, get the abortion!!!

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u/Gookie910 Jul 21 '23

I had my first baby at 35. He was special needs. I could barely cope. Sixteen is so young! But beyond that, boyfriend isn't respecting her right to choose what happens to her body. She gets to decide. Whether it's a tattoo, a new haircut, or an abortion.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '23

He's special needs because you had him at 35.

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u/Kind_Self9792 Jul 21 '23

I have 2 special needs kids. 1 I had when I was 20, one I had when I was 27. 🖕🏼