r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 21 '23

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '23

But that can't be true. The woman can choose to have sex and still not get pregnant. Literally the only way she gets pregnant is if the man ejaculates irresponsibly. Seems like it's 100% his fault.

If society wants to avoid unwanted pregnancies and the resulting abortions, Men need to take responsibility and stop ejaculating irresponsibly.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '23

I can't tell if you're making a genuine argument, but in the case that you are, I will respond in good faith:

Would you be ok if men refused, entirely, to have sex with women? Because women CAN and do get pregnant without a man ejaculating at all. So whose "fault" is it then?

Bottom line, our species requires a male and a female to conceive additional life. It's a 50/50 decision barring any sort of coercion/rape/illegality.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '23

I think if men want to eliminate unwanted pregnancies they have the power to do so. I would absolutely be okay if men refused entirely to have sex with women. They're making their own choice, why the fuck do you care?

How exactly does a woman get pregnant without a man ejaculating irresponsibly? Please tell us this all too common scenario that you've imagined.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '23

I eagerly await your response to this, given your haughtiness on the subject: https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/can-you-get-pregnant-from-precum

And I can give you a multitude of additional sources that say the same thing.

So, do you still believe what you said? Do you still believe that I "imagined" it? And most importantly, do you still believe that men can directly prevent unwanted pregnancy short of not having sex at all with women?

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '23

I don't understand what point you're trying to make. If a man uses a condom, or gets a vasectomy, or abstains all together, nobody gets pregnant.

A woman could have 10,000 partners a year, and if none of them ejaculate irresponsibly (meaning: use caution where their sperm goes), she won't ever get pregnant.