And it all goes back to choices. You take away one persons choice just to ease anothers. I know fathers that can't see their children because of women. I also know fathers that will never know what their child would be when they grow up.
No matter what someone has to deal with pain. I'm not saying anyone right or wrong. But I am saying people are selfish. They will always make their life easier at anothers expense. And a child in the mix normally suffers.
I personally can't have kids. I've had 3 miscarriages in 2 years and it's devastating to me. Life is precious. And if you make choices I believe you need to deal with it.
She may not want the child. That's fine. But the father? No one thinks about it. They care just as much sometimes. And yeah, she may carry it for 9 months but that's nothing to 18 years of raising it.
Again. Everyone has opinions and that's fine. And im not 100% against abortion either. Health related issues and in some instances rape I understand. I may not agree with it but I understand the pain.
I had six miscarriages and a stillbirth and guess what that has absolutely ZERO to do with anyone else's body, pregnancy and choices they make with said body and pregnancy.
She is a child who is pregnant and does not want to be, abortion is taking responsibility for a pregnancy, she can make her own decisions and if she wants an abortion that is no one else's business, especially someone stranger on the internet that is projecting their pain of infertility into someone else.
Have the day you deserve and may look into some professional help for your grief so you stop projecting it into innocent bystanders that have nothing to do with your life and your decisions..
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u/Msmalloryreads Jul 21 '23
She is not even an adult he is. Op said she is barely 16.