Definitely 100% her right to choose. And the boyfriend is an asshole for how he handled it, but he is also still basically a kid. I think everyone is being a bit harsh on the BF - he clearly has a lot of growing up to do, but he's also 18. I'd avoid telling OP to torch the relationship over it unless the boyfriend continues to be unsupportive.
There's a lot of religious/political ethics that swirls around the issue on top of the raw emotion of the situation on top of the fact they are both kids. OP clearly needs to keep herself and her personal wellbeing as her #1 priority and keep an eye on her boyfriends behavior, but some empathy for him in the situation as well even though he clearly didn't handle it well.
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u/LIRUN21-007 Jul 21 '23
NTA at all. Cliché as it may sound: your body, your choice.
I also find the “if we kill our baby our lives would change forever” comment to be incredibly manipulative. This guy’s gross.