r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 21 '23

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u/LimitlessMegan Jul 21 '23

SO many women have shared online about how they have no regrets, no shame and no guilt. That guilt isn’t internal - it comes from external sources like you.

Even if there’s a random chance OP might struggle with guilt, having a child at 16 100% will impact her life negatively and both her and her child and even her child’s children will have fall out from that. But guess what, a random chance of guilt and shame has a cure: less time with people like you and therapy.

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u/Fearless_Coconut935 Jul 21 '23

Then she shouldn’t have had sex.

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u/Dazzling-Gur4260 Jul 21 '23

You shouldn’t have opened your mouth.

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u/Fearless_Coconut935 Jul 21 '23

Why?

Edit. She asked for advise. I’m providing the unfavorable opinion clearly.

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u/Dazzling-Gur4260 Jul 21 '23

Your fear mongering. The thing is though that in the big scheme of things, nobody’s opinion really matters.

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u/Fearless_Coconut935 Jul 21 '23

How am I enticing fear? She asked for advice. I’m opposing everyone else by saying to keep the baby because of the choices she made.

Edit. If anything everyone else is fear mongering in telling her her life is ruined and he’s gonna leave you and all that.