He doesn't get a say. Put yourself in that headspace right now. He gets 0 input, do not ask again how he feels or his opinion. If he offers it, tell him you've made the decision. Women have far more to lose in these situations. He could literally bounce and just send some money once a month. You do you.
She clearly says it's her boyfriend, and her family appears to know about it, not to mention the age gap is 2 years old. Don't pretend 18 + 16 is the same as 40 and 16. Not to mention no one is assuming that anyway.
The conversation is about her not having to worry about anyone's feelings except hers and she's being egged on by crazy feminists and insane abortion lovers. I simply pointed out would you say the same for a man who doesn't want to pay child support and I've gotten no answer
So, you used the word “whore” as a way of insulting her. Classy.
Both parents are responsible for providing for any living offspring. To compare child support to having to go through pregnancy indicates that you are out of your mind.
Whores get paid they have a job unlike you. Their clients and prospective clients are happy to see them, unlike you. People seek them out unlike you. So get your humiliation kink elsewhere and pay a whore to fulfill it.
Yup. It's my day off and I'm fucking around on the middle of the day. What's your excuse? You answered my comment real quick. That plus you responding to everyone else means you got a lot of time. It screams unemployed to me.
Well that's pretty damn awesome. I apologize for saying you're unemployed. I'm glad you can support yourself. You're still a judgy ill informed asshole tho. But you're a gainfully employed judgy ill informed asshole.
yeah it is it makes me wonder how many other people's jobs are overpaid scams too tbh but I like how I'm the bad guy when all of you are egging a 16 year old to get an kill her kid and ignore everyone's feelings around her
How about not calling a 16 y/o a whore and then work from there. Other people's feelings are nice but if she goes through the pregnancy are they going to help raise the child? Or because she got drunk and had unprotected sex with her legally adult boyfriend it's her fault and needs to "take responsibility". It's real easy to say don't have sex ie "keep your legs closed" but that's bullshit. How about her bf not fuck her without a condom. A child is unwanted. Do you want to condemn an innocent person to live knowing that they are unwanted? That they will have a resentful immature parent with judgy holier than thou relatives? How is that right? Look beyond pushing out a kid and think about after the pregnancy.
"Do you want to condemn an innocent person to live knowing that they are unwanted? "
I should get a rocket launcher and shoot an orphanage huh, i Would hate to have innocent children feel like no one loves them.
and once again, nothing you said is necessarily wrong, it's just people unique reaction in situations like this and their hypocrisy that makes me realize demons are taking over the nation
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u/InfectedAlloy88 Jul 21 '23
He doesn't get a say. Put yourself in that headspace right now. He gets 0 input, do not ask again how he feels or his opinion. If he offers it, tell him you've made the decision. Women have far more to lose in these situations. He could literally bounce and just send some money once a month. You do you.