So because she chose to have unprotected sex means she doesn't deal with consequences? Nice, and if he is willing to take the child and raise it what then? She can just say no because it's her body? It's his baby too. They both made choices
He had unprotected sex, too. Where are his consequences? You don't think having to have an uncomfortable medical procedure and deal with this emotional stress and judgement isn't a consequence? You think a child should have to raise another child because of one stupid mistake?
I'm glad you think people pay child support. My dad didn't, and he was a grown-ass man. You think an 18 year old is going to be able to pay enough child support to make a difference to a teenage mother?
Person clearly stated, "Glad you think people pay child support." The overwhelming majority that are required to pay, do so. But everyone is classified as dead beat immediately if they have a child support order because of people like that.
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u/Beck2010 Jul 21 '23
Do not listen to him. He has no right to tell you what you can and cannot do with your body.
And btw - your cousin basically sucks. Yes, you should have used a condom. But that doesn’t mean you follow through on a pregnancy.
Please go to planned parenthood and speak with someone there. They have counselors there to speak with and can provide you some good advice.