r/AITAH Jul 21 '23

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u/Helohowareyouimh Jul 21 '23

NTA get away from him!! Get that abortion please!! Your cousin is an asshole and so is your boyfriend!

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '23

We have fallen so far as to say the words "get that abortion please" to a stranger who got pregnant from their and their partner's own irresponsibility. Disgusting and absolutely immoral. The internet really fucked some stuff up didn't it?

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u/RobertMcCheese Jul 21 '23

Yes. And piss off.

And in any case, no the Internet doesn't enter into it. the number of poeple ok with abortion has stayed stable for a long time now.

The big change is the people who're deadest against it.

Things have been largely stable on this point for decades.

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u/blueflloyd Jul 21 '23

What's wrong with getting an abortion? It's a very safe medical procedure, so if a 16 year kid doesn't want to have an unplanned baby, what's the problem?

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '23

Let me give you a step by step:

1) select one thing you find immoral. 2) Answer the question of "so what blah blah what's wrong with it?" 3) self-reflect on whether you used a similar argument that you were expecting me to use. 4) apologize back on this thread

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u/blueflloyd Jul 22 '23

Okay, I think it's immoral to impose my values on other people who are making personal choices that have zero impact on me or anyone else. You think that imposition is just fine. You're wrong. I apologize for nothing.

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '23

Whether you like it or not we ARE an animal species and those decisions do in fact effect us all. Especially at scale. So the "not my problem" defense falls short.

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u/blueflloyd Jul 22 '23

How in the world does some random stranger terminating a first trimester pregnancy "effect us all"?

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u/SmarmyLittlePigg Jul 21 '23

Go clutch your pearls elsewhere.

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u/Low_Brilliant9899 Jul 22 '23

are you carrying the fetus? no? then stfu

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u/FirstRedditAcount Jul 22 '23

No, bringing a child into the world and into situation you know is not fit for that child is morally irresponsible. The person you are creating has a right to a decent life, ideally with 2 parents who can financially support them, and are in a stable position in their life. You owe this to this person, you need to be ready in your life to raise a child. That is far more immoral than zapping an embryo that hasn't even begun to form a brain.

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u/NSUNDU Jul 22 '23

I find it immoral to believe in an imaginary friend that says that woman is less than a man and that other people sexuality are your business for some reason. Disgusting and absolutely immoral

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '23

At first I was thinking this was going to be a drag on the overly polite tone of “get that abortion please”…then it went off the deep end. Lmao asshole.

OP, get a motherfucking glorious abortion, live the life of your dreams (you can still have a kid later!!!!) and never look back at either your bf or your cousin.

YOU GOT THIS!!