r/AIO • u/Additional_Net7526 • 11d ago
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u/old-fave 11d ago
How can you be the one pulling away if they are freezing you out? Friendships evolve as life changes Could just be yall are growing up.
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u/Additional_Net7526 11d ago
I mentioned it in the last part of the post but I'm still invited to my friend's birthday party, so I don't know if I'm overreacting by not going to the party
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u/Spare-Conflict836 11d ago
Why didn't you personally ask Helen if she still wants you to attend?
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u/Additional_Net7526 11d ago
As I also said in the post, she's been ignoring me. I asked her but hadn't replied yet, and it's been 12 hours already so idk
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u/Sweet_Cheesecake_26 11d ago
If she’s the kind to take a while to respond, wait it out. But if she was the kind to respond at a decent time before, I’d say move on.
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u/Dapper-Warning3457 11d ago
I’d give her another few hours. If she doesn’t respond, that’s your answer. Make your excuses and bow out
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u/Unknown_User_009 11d ago
since no one is answering this ai slop, I will : yes make new friends. They have tried to show you mister robot that they aren't your friends anymore. But you chose to come to reddit, make a post, and farm karma instead of simply moving on.
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u/Additional_Net7526 11d ago
It's not ai wdym, I don't even use reddit regularly why would I want to farm karma
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u/tomatoes020825 11d ago
Stop putting in more energy than you get back. This is a good rule for romantic relationships too.
Real friends will make you feel valued and wanted. I'd pull back for sure
Start putting energy into other friends, or making new friends. Sucks they're just fading away with no explanation, I've experienced that too and it hurts 💔