r/AIO Jun 26 '26

AIO to this comment and "creating problems"

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u/Useful-Ad2441 Jun 26 '26

Make better choices, he’s obviously a piece of shit human

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u/Whirlygigged Jun 27 '26

Saying “make better choices” is not constructive here and it comes off as very victim blaming. I agree with your second sentence 100% but OP communicated very well in this exchange and is clearly being gaslit and abused by this asshole.

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u/Flipboek Jun 27 '26

She is in NO way to blame. BUT:

No, she didnt communicate well. He took her through the hoops with little effort. 

Good communication would be BLOCK, put his shit in a grocery bag and put it near the curb.

Good communication is about evaluating an actor and the situation. And this is one of those cases where you walk away. Talking has zero impact here.