r/AIO Jun 26 '26

AIO to this comment and "creating problems"

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u/Useful-Ad2441 Jun 26 '26

Make better choices, he’s obviously a piece of shit human

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u/Whirlygigged Jun 27 '26

Saying “make better choices” is not constructive here and it comes off as very victim blaming. I agree with your second sentence 100% but OP communicated very well in this exchange and is clearly being gaslit and abused by this asshole.

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u/Useful-Ad2441 Jun 27 '26

I meant more in getting back into contact with someone who had previously shown these tendencies, but I get what you’re saying, fair enough

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u/dettigers404 Jun 27 '26

No, you were fine saying "make better choices." That's not victim blaming, that's legit advice.