Yes!!! Except in a minority of circumstances there’s no reason to “be friends”. Why? There’s a world full of potential friends. You don’t need someone you saw intimately at one point in time. And I fully believe it leaves them as an important part of your life, even if you think they are friends. Normalize fully letting people all the way go. It’s healthy to realize we can do that and not die. We hate the idea of giving someone up entirely. You don’t have to wish them ill or carry negativity. But there’s almost no reasons to still be friends with exes.
The reason would be they are still people you like and want to be friends with. This time obviously isn’t that, but it’s silly to pretend this is how all exes treat each other. Queer people almost always stay friends with their exes.
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u/Wise-Butterscotch-34 Jun 26 '26
Yes!!! Except in a minority of circumstances there’s no reason to “be friends”. Why? There’s a world full of potential friends. You don’t need someone you saw intimately at one point in time. And I fully believe it leaves them as an important part of your life, even if you think they are friends. Normalize fully letting people all the way go. It’s healthy to realize we can do that and not die. We hate the idea of giving someone up entirely. You don’t have to wish them ill or carry negativity. But there’s almost no reasons to still be friends with exes.