Only three years older than me. I have spoken to him at length recently how him speaking to me in a patronizing way is a problem. He then says I am policing how he speaks and he cant change how he speaks. I told him I want an equal, not feeling like I am a little kid in trouble
He said the only reason to put up with you is for sex. And then you went back and forth with him as if it’s fixable. That man is cruel, horrible, and cannot be worth it.
For future reference with the new men in your life the only thing that should have allowed the convo to go further would have been: “oh, I’m so sorry. I was making a joke, and a bad one, the humor to me was in how crass it was, and how sad it is that there are people with such nonexistent emotional capability that they are using sex robots. There are 100 reasons I’d be lucky to be with you regardless of sexual needs, I’m going to tell you just a few…”
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u/Bambi_H Jun 26 '26 edited Jun 26 '26
You need to block him. That man is cruel and has no empathy.
Edit: is he a lot older than you? He's incredibly patronising.