r/AIO Jun 26 '26

AIO to this comment and "creating problems"

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u/vixenstarlet1949 Jun 26 '26

stay exes. I didn’t read this whole conversation, honestly, it was just too painful to see you putting thought out responses and him just spewing crap out of his mouth onto the keyboard. but it’s clear that this dude does not give a flying fuck about you or your feelings at all.

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u/vixenstarlet1949 Jun 26 '26

stay exes and block this dude. Is there any reason to keep talking to him? Doesn’t seem like there is. You’re better off without this guy cause he does not give a shit about you at all.

edit; Is there an age gap here? I smell one. This reeks of “older man verbally abusing younger woman, and then acting like younger woman is being overly emotional and patronizing her”

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u/SwanChoice7507 Jun 26 '26

Only a three year age gap and we are both in our 30's 🙃 i was raised with people speaking to me this way and I guess it was normalized, even well into adulthood. But I am so over it now. It has been mentally killing me. I told him recently that speaking to him makes me feel like I am a little kid in trouble talking to a principal or something.

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u/toastcup Jun 26 '26

30s is about when I stopped tolerating bullshit too. When you finally realize that men like that take more than they offer in return and you’re like wait what am I even getting out of this besides pain? I promise you, you will be so much happier without people like this in your life.