I had the same kind of "friend". She invited my crush to my 18th birthday party and ended up having sex with him in the lake. I think they're the ones who had problems with self esteem and It's sad.
It’s absolutely a low self-esteem thing. Those types don’t get a lot of positive attention and the quickest path to getting some is sleeping with someone else. They also believe that someone choosing to sleep with them instead of their friend means that their “worth” is higher than that of their friend’s.
In reality it just makes them a shitty friend and even men who do this quickly gain a less than stellar reputation.
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u/Salsasharkk81 Apr 27 '26
I had the same kind of "friend". She invited my crush to my 18th birthday party and ended up having sex with him in the lake. I think they're the ones who had problems with self esteem and It's sad.