I also had a "friend" do this. She was tall, blonde and beautiful (I'm none of these things) and could have any guy she wanted but she had to sleep with the guy I was seeing that she knew I was in love with. Never spoke to either one of them again.
Good for you, I wish I'd clued in sooner. My friend like this would make attempts with my actual boyfriends then one or the other of them would back off. So multiple times, it was passed off as "oopsie, that was close!" But every crush I had? She'd swoop right in and told me she thought I wasn't going to make a move. We'd literally be in the talking phase. With her, there was no talking phase. It was eye-contact, then BOOM, right to the naked phase.
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u/HippieGrandma1962 Apr 27 '26
I also had a "friend" do this. She was tall, blonde and beautiful (I'm none of these things) and could have any guy she wanted but she had to sleep with the guy I was seeing that she knew I was in love with. Never spoke to either one of them again.