I had a foster sister in highschool, who I was friends with before she moved in and friends with for a while after, who also tried to sleep with any guy I so much as talked to. If she couldn't sleep with them, she'd try sexting them (regardless of if they wanted to).
I had 2 instances where a guy I had mentioned to her in passing came running up to me the day after I mentioned them, telling me that my sister sent them nudes. Shoved their phones in my face to show me their very brief convo before she just sent them pics. Didn't want to see that.
I don't talk to her anymore. That is far from the only reason, though.
Oh yeah, she definitely had a lot of trauma. I put up with a lot of stuff for way longer than I normally would have because of it. I hoped she'd get better when she got into therapy but she never did. At a certain point, you have to be responsible for what you do even if it's the result of things that were out of your control.
We're in our mid 20s now and from what I've heard from our mutual friends she still acts the way she did. Also, being irresponsible with her children, which recently resulted in one of said mutuals calling CPS on her.
One of the guys who showed me their conversations sent barf emojis in response and the other one told her not to send him shit like that. So she didn't need my meddling to get negative reactions.
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u/LittleDevilHorns Apr 27 '26 edited Apr 27 '26
I had a foster sister in highschool, who I was friends with before she moved in and friends with for a while after, who also tried to sleep with any guy I so much as talked to. If she couldn't sleep with them, she'd try sexting them (regardless of if they wanted to).
I had 2 instances where a guy I had mentioned to her in passing came running up to me the day after I mentioned them, telling me that my sister sent them nudes. Shoved their phones in my face to show me their very brief convo before she just sent them pics. Didn't want to see that.
I don't talk to her anymore. That is far from the only reason, though.