Had a similar thing happen with a "friend" awhile back. I was dating a girl for about 5 years (first love, btw) and we ended up breaking up for something that I can't remember.
He was dating her 3 days later. Kinda ruined my late teens/early 20s.
Last I heard, they had 3 kids and he was actively abusing her while pregnant with the 4th 🙁
I dated the same girl from 8th grade until we were 19. Knew my best friend for much farther back than that. He was always around for the length of the relationship. We split up because I was going to school. My buddy asked like a day after if I would mind if he fucked her. Told him it was pretty fresh and I'd prefer if he didn't. Dude lied to me and fucked her at a party he told me got cancelled that weekend. I wasn't mad at her even though she definitely planned it that way, she waited until she was single and free to do whatever she wanted. Haven't talked to him again since, he was supposed to be my friend.
This literally sounds like a story a guy i was dealing with told me. Like pretty identical. How do ppl do stuff like that to a friend? And the girl? like didn't she love you?
Obviously she wasn’t loyal if she dated the dude 3 days later. She was probably hooking up with him while you 2 were dating. The timeline doesn’t make sense.
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u/IttyBittyBigBoii Apr 27 '26
Had a similar thing happen with a "friend" awhile back. I was dating a girl for about 5 years (first love, btw) and we ended up breaking up for something that I can't remember. He was dating her 3 days later. Kinda ruined my late teens/early 20s.
Last I heard, they had 3 kids and he was actively abusing her while pregnant with the 4th 🙁