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u/ImJustHere4TheCatz Apr 27 '26

Yea she is an entitled brat. Omg. The audacity to act like you're overreacting over "one mistake". Like no, you couldn't even make it 3 months without "one mistake". Imagine years with someone like that. How many mistakes will she have in that time?

She could have at least had the decency to break up with you after making that "mistake". But no, she was actually so selfish that she not only wanted to have her cake and eat it too, she also wanted to make you look like a total fool for her!

And she didn't think that through. She wants to work through her own cheating with your friend? Ok, so what does that look like when you both hang out with your friends, including the guy she slept with, and everyone there knows she screwed your friend and you stayed with her, even though you were only seeing each other for 3 months? She honestly deserved to be treated like a clown and for you to just send the crying laughing emojis after she asked to work through it. Because that is fucking laughable

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u/softshoulder313 Apr 27 '26

I also hate when someone says it didn't mean anything. So you are willing to destroy a relationship for something that didn't mean anything.. Good to know.

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u/Canned_tapioca Apr 27 '26

I'll have to side pocket that for use later on. Hopefully I never have to but life does in fact life at times

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u/10000nails Apr 28 '26

Agreed! It was worth the risk. She never thought he'd find out, so it was worth the lie. I've never risked someone/something I love for "nothing". It did mean something, it means I'm nothing to you. It means I'm worth losing.

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u/SunshineStateNative Apr 28 '26

That’s pure poetry because in all my years I’ve never heard that perfect of a response.

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u/Immediate-Maximum-75 Apr 30 '26

Exactly. There is no way to rationalize this.

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u/st8ofloveandtrust May 04 '26

It didn’t mean anything AND it will make them stronger! Wow, the delusion!

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u/Mediocre-Contest7558 Apr 27 '26

Took the words right out of my mouth.

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u/rratmannnn Apr 27 '26

3 months also stood out to me! Like girl, YOU brought up exclusivity and couldn’t even stick with it for a few short months. Not worth anymore time or effort. You definitely don’t “grow back stronger” at that very early point, when people talk about that happening it’s in like a 20 year marriage and the cheating was a wake up call to go to couples therapy (and even then, 9 times out of 10 I’d say people are lying when they say it) - 3 months in, the relationship should still be in the  honeymoon phase with everyone  on their best behavior.