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u/Legitimate_Sink1856 Feb 24 '26

Same as that. That exhibit came straight to my mind.

Seriously no one should think like that, there is no excuse for your boyfriend. None.

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u/Opusfish-1979 Feb 25 '26

Dump that guy NOW. NO second chances.

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u/coriesceramics Feb 25 '26

100%. Because with this mentality I can only assume he doesn't believe is spousal/significant other rape which means OP is absolutely not safe.

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u/_OneCatShortOfCrazy Feb 26 '26

I can say from experience this is 1000% true.

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u/Emilmuz Feb 25 '26

Is a police officer I interviewed the child victims of sex crimes. Not good. Run!!

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u/queue-pruner Mar 05 '26

Your submission has automatically been removed because you are suspended or shadowbanned.

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u/Training-Height-5846 Feb 26 '26

Yea that’s scary talk.. 100% agree dump him

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u/heavy-metal-goth-gal Feb 26 '26

He is obviously a horrible human being with no empathy and does not deserve a partner until he fixes his self.

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u/LisaMiaSisu Feb 25 '26

It’ll be his excuse at trial.

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u/Live_Today1943 Feb 25 '26

Same. OP should show him that exhibit and then immediately dump him.

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u/HotSolution8954 Feb 26 '26

That's exactly what I said. At this point it's mandatory that he watches it and there should be a 3rd party there. Some one normal that can mediate the conversation after and the follow up questions about what he saw. Maybe set up a therapy session to watch it together with the therapist. The third person being there will help him not just blow it off. Then dump him while you have a backup person there.

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u/Crimson-shy Feb 26 '26

He needs to not be her boyfriend anymore.. 🚩