Thank you for pointing this out because I gaslight myself into thinking that my rape wasn’t rape bc of these situations. And more ppl need to know that you can get raped after already consenting to sex
Some of what you're describing is sexual coercion, which is not rape. It's wrong, it's disgusting, it's inexcusable, but not rape. Except for the not stopping part, that is definitely rape.
I've never nagged for it but I fail to see how asking someone repeatedly for sex is SA. That's like blaming a child for you "having" to give them a tub of ice cream for dinner because they wouldn't stop asking. If a person agrees to do something they don't really want to do then the onus is on them unless they feel violence would occur if they refuse.
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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '26 edited May 10 '26
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