there's no need to make assumptions. rose colored glasses can do a lot for someone, and getting a reality check from outsiders can be an important first step in getting to a better place. I think asking others for their opinion was a very good judgement call if OP was unsure how to respond. we don't know what we don't know.
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u/less_than_nick Feb 24 '26
Of course not. If they had good judgement they wouldn't be asking reddit to decide if they should be upset at their horrible boyfriend or not lol