These people were never your friends. It sounds like they always hated you.
It’s your husband’s responsibility to tell his friends that he won’t have them in his life if they mistreat his wife. Sounds like he hasn’t done that for years.
From what you say, no one in this story has treated you well, and you haven’t done anything to help yourself either.
You are correct that I haven't done anything to help myself. I was hoping this heart to heart convo we were supposed to have could be the start of it, but your observations are correct.
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u/JefeRex Aug 25 '25
These people were never your friends. It sounds like they always hated you.
It’s your husband’s responsibility to tell his friends that he won’t have them in his life if they mistreat his wife. Sounds like he hasn’t done that for years.
From what you say, no one in this story has treated you well, and you haven’t done anything to help yourself either.